here's my memory usage:
total used free shared buffers cached
Mem: 514808 404240 110568 0 77816 123488
Swap: 907664 19456 888208
the biggest memory users are mythbackend, mysql, apache2 in that order. The cpu usage is usually very low and the system feels responsive.
Actually, I didn't put the fact that the sheeva is hosting my website because I want to see if people would notice. I ran websites before on commercial hosting sites and I wanted to know if the sheeva is up for hosting small/mid size websites. So far, the sheeva "feels" faster than some of the sites I've used. Image the tech's face if you show up with a couple of sheevas to be co-loc at their place.

Rabeeh, what stats are you looking for? I could run the benchmark if I don't already have it.